London Dominatrix: Mistress Alexandra

London Dominatrix: Mistress Alexandra

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The importance of the Initial Consultation

People come in all different colours, heights, weights, cultures, tastes, fantasies, preferences etc. What is an enjoyable experience for one can be a put off to another. Hence there are no hard and fast rules as to how to conduct a session. It all depends on the individual requests of the client at the time of the session. The initial consultation is designed to determine the client’s requirements in order to personalise the session. The initial consultation takes place in the dungeon and it is not a part of the session. This is the first time new client meets the dominatrix. It is emphasised to have a consultation with regular clients as well in order to establish consent. (No matter how well both parties know each other. If there was no consultation prior to session that means no consent was given!)
Domination or any form of role play is generally not involved during the consultation. The first impression is very important for both parties so it is advisable to be professional and also approachable. This is the time where the Mistress/slave relationship begins to form. Honesty and trust is vital between them. As two complete strangers, it is the best time to answer all questions both parties may have in order to determine if they can play together safely. The Dominatrix’s experience and skills are often established in order to gain trust and also to ensure professional approach. During the consultation it is the important to find out whether the client’s request is covered by the Mistress’s offered services. Once consent has been established, the Mistress then needs to find out whether the client’s personal expectations of the session are realistic and set limits based on these expectations. A safe word is often agreed for the safety of both parties and after payment the professional domination session is performed.  
I find it essential to spend a few minutes prior to session in any cases, even after numerous e-mails have been exchanged between the client and the Mistress. That is to ensure a safe, sane, consensual and enjoyable experience for both the Dominatrix and the submissive.

 

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